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Interview with KD Basso

Hey Everyone! I had the pleasure of being interviewed on KD Basso’s InstaLive! We talked about my experiences as a stepmom and my book Stepping into New Role, Stories from Stepmoms. We also talked about the book I’m writing now, which is all about people with differences. You can tune in here to listen: 

If you’d like a signed copy of Stepping into New Role, Stories from Stepmoms, you can order directly from me at Shawn@stepmomshawn.com. 

Kimberly Davis Basso is a two Time Finalist for INDIES Book of the Year in Humor from Foreword Reviews for her non-fiction humor I’m a Little Brain Dead and Birth and Other Surprises and a Finalist for Life Stories from Writer’s Digest. Her third book, Next Door: A Collection of Twelve Twisted Tales and One True Story is out October 2021. 

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Where Were Stepmom Podcasts 20 Years Ago When I needed Them??

Well, I’m glad they’re here now! I’ve really enjoyed being interviewed on these much needed and supportive stepmom podcasts! It is definitely therapeutic to talk with and to read about others going through similar experiences. I do wish podcasts like these and books like the one I wrote existed when I first became a stepmom. There is such comfort in knowing we are not alone on our journeys.

If you’d like to tune in, here are the links to the three most recent interviews about my stepmom experiences and my book Stepping into a New Role, Stories from Stepmoms:

The Wicked Stepmom:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wicked-stepmom/id1479108448

Stepmonster:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/stepmonster/id1546142622

The Daily Stepmom:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-daily-stepmom/id1546649595?i=1000568831698

Exciting Announcement!

I’ll be live on the “Judith Mancini Today” show on Thursday morning at 9am. 

We will be discussing my work with children and my life as a stepmom as well as my book “Stepping into A New Role, Stories from Stepmoms.”

I hope you’ll tune in! 😍 

To listen “live” click here: k4hd.com

To watch “live” click here: talk4tv.com, then click on the YouTube button. 

To take us with you go to our free app: k4hd.com.

LA Times Book Festival!

I’m super excited to be a featured author at the Los Angeles Times Festival of Books this Sunday, April 24th!I’ve aways wanted to attend because I love reading, love books, and love meeting authors. But now I get to be there as an author! How cool is that? 😃

I’ll be there all day Sunday in the WPN, Writers and Publishers Network, Booth #200, across from the Poetry Stage. USC, 3551 Trousdale Pkwy, Los Angeles, CA 90089

Come out and say “Hi” and buy a signed copy “Stepping into A New Role, Stories from Stepmoms!”

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Author Event

I’m excited to announce Oxnard Library’s Local Authors Showcase

Where: Oxnard Public Library

251 S A Street, Meeting Room B, Oxnard, CA 93030

When: Saturday, April 2nd, from 2-5pm

Plus, It’s Oxnard Public Library’s 110th Anniversary!

Come join us for activities, food, and drinks! 

Fun for the whole family!

I hope to see you there! 

Another Awesome 4/4 Star Review

I just received another Awesome Review from The Online Book Club for Stepping into A New Role, Stories from Stepmoms! And this time I got 4/4 stars!! 😃👏

Here are my favorite parts of the review: 

“While the book addresses many painful issues, the humor and mastery of the author perfectly neutralizes this and makes the book enjoyable to read.”

“I rated this book 4 out of 4 stars. There is nothing I did not like… I recommend this book to step-parents. Here you will find many interesting tips and fun stories. Also, any person who loves family stories and enjoyable books to read should definitely read this book.”

If you’d like to read the full review, use this link: 

https://forums.onlinebookclub.org/viewtopic.php?f=24&t=214173

To purchase my book, you can use one of these links: 

https://www.4rvpublishing.com/shawn-simon.html
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/stepping-into-a-new-role-shawn-simon/1136816236?ean=9781940310954

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Perfect Valentine’s Day Gift!

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and what better way to show your love and support for the stepmoms in your life than to buy my book, Stepping into A New Role, Stories from Stepmoms. ❤️It’s full of true stories that will encourage and validate stepmoms, kind of like a support group in writing.

Here are the links to purchase: 

https://www.4rvpublishing.com/shawn-simon.html
https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/stepping-into-a-new-role-shawn-simon/1136816236?ean=9781940310954

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Writers’ Festival!

Just a reminder to come see me at the Writers’ Festival on December 11th and 12th at the E.P. Foster Library in downtown Ventura. 

Visit me at the booth for a chat and to buy a signed copy of my book, Stepping into a New Role, Stories from Stepmoms. I’ll also be reading from my book and taking questions. 

The group running the event will be holding giveaways and workshops, so there will be a lot of fun things to do. You are sure to have a great time! 

Don’t forget, December 11th and 12th from 11am-4pm in downtown Ventura, 651 Main St. at the E.P. Foster library. www.writersventura.com/event

My Book is in Bookstores!

My book, Stepping into a New Role, Stories from Stepmoms, is now officially being carried in three bookstores! One of them, Timbre Books, in Ventura on Main Street, is new. And growing! Bank of Books has been in Ventura for many, many years, and the Book Worm, in Camarillo, opened in 1973. I love that these bookstores support local authors. How cool is that? And how cool is it that bookstores still exist? 😀

Please visit the bookstores, and while you’re there, buy my book, either for yourself, because the stories are fascinating to read, or for a stepmom you know. 🙂  The links for purchase are also right here on my website. Thank you for your support!! xoxo

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Podcast Episode 7: Empowering Kids

Take a listen to our new podcast on the importance of empowering children. Encouraging our children to do things on their own can be challenging for parents. It makes sense. When they were first born we had to do everything for them. Sometimes it’s hard to know when to step back and let them do for themselves. We have to discern what they are developmentally ready to accomplish. This can be easier for a stepparent because we did not raise them from the start. We can often be more objective. Even so, letting go can be hard for any parent, so we often just continue to do everything for them. This is doing a disservice to our kids. When they do for themselves, they are empowered. When they are empowered, they thrive.

Here are the links to our podcast I hope you enjoy our discussion! 🙂

https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuc3ByZWFrZXIuY29tL3Nob3cvNDU5NTUwMC9lcGlzb2Rlcy9mZWVk
https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/spilling-the-coffee-and-tea-1583474
https://www.deezer.com/us/show/2201412
https://podcastaddict.com/podcast/3216578
https://www.speakuptalkradio.com/spilling-the-coffee-and-tea-podcast/